Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
Honest answers to the questions men most often ask before their first session. If yours isn't here, you're always welcome to ask via a discreet enquiry.
- What actually happens in a session?
- Every session is shaped around you, so it's never quite the same twice — which is why we always start with a relaxed chat about what you're hoping for. From there it's unhurried, present touch and breath, with plenty of space to slow down, feel and simply receive. You're in the lead the whole way, and there's always time at the close to rest before you head home.
- How is a Tantric massage different from a regular massage?
- A regular massage works on the muscles; a Tantric massage works with the whole body, breath and sensation — the aim is deep relaxation, presence and pleasure rather than just easing tension. It's slow, warm and unhurried, with nothing to perform and nowhere to rush.
- Is this an erotic massage?
- It's more than that. Rather than anything goal-driven or transactional, this is a whole-body, unhurried experience focused on relaxation, presence and sensation — a space to slow right down and feel. If you're wondering whether it's the right fit, the easiest thing is a quick, discreet message and we'll talk it through.
- How discreet is it? Is my privacy protected?
- Completely. Sessions are by appointment only and everything is kept private and confidential. The exact location in Bondi Junction is shared with you on booking.
- How clean is the space?
- The space is private and meticulously clean, with fresh linens, sanitised surfaces and fresh, warm towels for every session. If you're able to shower beforehand, that's ideal — I'll also freshen you with warm towels as part of settling in.
- What should I wear or bring?
- Just come as you are, unhurried and well hydrated. You don't need to bring anything. Draping is used throughout, so you only ever feel as relaxed and covered as you like.
- I feel nervous — is that normal?
- Completely normal — most men feel a little nervous at first. The session moves entirely at your pace and begins with a relaxed chat, so you settle in before anything begins. You can slow down or pause at any time.
- Do I need any experience with Tantra?
- None at all. Sessions meet you exactly where you are and move at your pace. Everything is explained and guided as you go, so you always feel comfortable to continue.
- How do I book a session?
- Through the enquiry form. Share a little about what you're looking for and your preferred days and times, and Scarlett will reply discreetly to arrange things.
- Where are sessions held?
- In a calm, private space in Bondi Junction, Sydney. The exact address is shared with you on booking.
- How long is a session and what does it cost?
- Sessions run 75 minutes ($400), 2 hours ($600) or 3 hours ($800), all by appointment. Enquire to talk through what length would suit you best.
An unhurried practice
Still have a question?
You're welcome to ask anything before booking — no question is too small. Make a discreet enquiry and Scarlett will reply personally.
Old South Head Rd, Bondi Junction, Sydney